Online dating in a small town is just.. it’s horrible a thread..
First the options are limited.
Then when you match you get anxious about what to say because literally you don’t know this person.
At least IRL you can go by non-verbal ques
Ok so now you are tasked to open up the conversation cool but exciting is what you’re going for..
You’ve scrolled passed some guys who make it very clear they will ignore you if you just say hey or hi. So you now have to think of a way to open be interesting but also not too eager.
So some guys you try a ice breaker that bombs because they are lame! Some guys you try that stupid suggested questions they have like how important is your family to you. One guys completely freaked out from that question! Lol it was hilarious

Some days it’s just endlessly swiping and none of them are even remotely passable.. you just want someone normal, someone who is more or less the same level of cool and chill you are we don’t want outliers here.
After every bad encounter, guys you’ve had to block coz they just want to be pals or just are dtf.. you start wondering where is the balance???
Is there no one left out there. I’m not a prude, I am not high maintenance but geez it’s roughy outchea.
End of thread.