i wish i would have been taught more about sex in sex ed, esp stuff besides just cishet penetrative sex. though that would have made sex ed actually useful which of course it couldnt be.

not straight? fuck you.
not cis? fuck you.
not into penetrative sex? fuck you.
like theres so much out there beyond that and it just doesn't get talked about openly which is dumb as fuck

shit almost never considers if one or more of the people participating isnt cis, its so frustrating. i wish it was something that got talked about more. i wish there was just more on the experiences of non cis people with sex cus its so fucking hard to find.