I live with my girlfriend and we have two completely separate rooms. and bathrooms.

we regularly have nights alone in our own rooms.

normalize that shit
personal space is EVERYTHING for a healthy relationship
y& #39;all hating meanwhile our dogs are watching the sunset together
and YES that& #39;s a portrait of us on the wall
I know our situation isn& #39;t a viable option in many cities and situations. this wasn& #39;t an option for us even a couple years ago. we worked really hard to make it happen. also we are careful with money. we thrift everything we own, both built businesses, and never go out lol
speaking of my life as an artist here& #39;s a thread of my work https://abs.twimg.com/emoji/v2/... draggable="false" alt="👩🏼‍💻" title="Woman technologist (mittelheller Hautton)" aria-label="Emoji: Woman technologist (mittelheller Hautton)">

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incase anyone was curious why I posted this in the first place. y& #39;all invalidate queer relationships and ESPECIALLY queer relationships that don& #39;t look like typical straight relationships. we& #39;re polyamorous, live in different rooms, and really fucking love each other https://abs.twimg.com/emoji/v2/... draggable="false" alt="♥️" title="Herz" aria-label="Emoji: Herz">
we didn& #39;t let anyone else tell us the rules of our relationship and instead we built something that& #39;s going to give us room to grow together but also as individuals. the freedom and space we give each other feels like love letters back and forth. this bitch is my soulmate
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