I'll tell you why I think the love in most relationships 'fades' or 'dies' once you're several months/years into it. You start of all loving and mushy in love them,you find someone,you become friends with em and after a few months of being best of friends,you start dating em

You're past that slow stage of getting to know each other,becoming good friends,teasing and troubling each other. You're now you're in a relationship. Everything is mushy and cute,romantic and lovely,hot and sexy. You're dreaming.Everydayyou get up and the first thing you do is

Check their messages. You talk for 10 minutes and then go brush your teeth,but you can't wait to finish the tasks your mom has given you,have your breakfast and go back to your bed,pick up your phone and write sweet nothings to them telling them how they make you feel like a

5 year old baby once again,because they love you so much,care for you so much and you cannot believe it is happening,you cannot believe you're getting the love you read about in books,watch in films. You plan the entire day with em,you dress up in smart clothes and you can't wait

For 5 pm to strike so you can see you beloved all dressed up and smelling of their very attractive cologne to meet you. You can't wait to go on a drive with em around the city and have amazing sex at night. You wake up in their arms every alternate day of the week

But all of this soon 'fades'. Because you run out of sweet nothings to convey. You run out of adjectives to describe them,you run out ways to make them okay when they're crying because they've seen it all. They don't listen to you now when you tell them to stop crying

They've stopped caring now,whether you arive late or not. You've stopped caring now,whether they're responding to your talks with the same energy as you are telling them with. They have that energy sometimes,other times they're just tired. The sex isn't that great anymore,

It is good sometimes,mostly when you're both drunk,other times you both just wanna' get it over with,because you've work,or because you don't have the emotional energy.Because love drains your emotional energy as it gets deeper,because love requires sacrifice and

Sacrifice mostly leaves a whole in your heart when it comes from a place of unacceptability and you fail to ever tell them that you were'nt happy with a particular decision of theirs. And that is why peice by piece,the mushy and cute,the lovely and romantic,the romantic and sexy

Stuff begins to lessen. It DOES'NT fade. It lessens because all of the a obove reasons. Those are just a few though. But love doesn't fade,it just becomes practical. Love turns into...care,yes. Care we can say. Because you don't stop giving them your jacket when they're cold

You don't stop babying them down when they're sick,because they can't take care of themselves. No matter how much you've fought,you don't stop doing things like these.If you stop,then you don't care about them,then you don't love them
But if you guys still these teeny tiny

Gestures of care,for each other. You're fine. There's still love,it's just more practical now. It's just care
And it's your job to revive the romantic,hot and cute stuff if you think it has decreased with time.
You might wanna break it off with them and you should if you

Absolutely hate their existence or if you don't see yourself together in the future for reason only you know. But if you think living with them and having them as your best ally is not as bad as you think it is when you fight,hold on to them and never let go.

If you've read this till here. Thank you. Hope you have a wonderful life

I used 'whole' instead of 'hole'. I'm sorry for the typo. Shukriya and please ignore other typos if you find em