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How to excel in social situations

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1. ๐‘บ๐’Ž๐’Š๐’๐’† ๐‘ด๐’๐’“๐’†! ๐Ÿ˜€

"Actions speak louder than words. A smile says, 'I like you. I am glad to see you.'"

It costs you nothing. But the value it can give is infinite.

Smiling makes you more approachable by conveying positive energy to those around you.
2. ๐‘ฎ๐’“๐’†๐’†๐’• ๐‘ท๐’†๐’๐’‘๐’๐’† ๐‘พ๐’Š๐’•๐’‰ ๐‘ป๐’‰๐’†๐’Š๐’“ ๐‘ต๐’‚๐’Ž๐’†!

"A personโ€™s name is to that person the sweetest and most important sound in any language."

A name is the best attention grabber around.

Using someone's name shows great respect and gives them a feeling of importance.
3. ๐‘ป๐’‚๐’Œ๐’† ๐‘ฎ๐’†๐’๐’–๐’Š๐’๐’† ๐‘ฐ๐’๐’•๐’†๐’“๐’”๐’• ๐‘ฐ๐’ ๐‘ถ๐’•๐’‰๐’†๐’“๐’”!

"To be interesting, be interested."

Naturally the most important person in the world to anyone, is themselves.

- Ask questions
- Keep eye contact
- Offer sincere compliments
- Acknowledge any similarities
4. ๐‘ณ๐’Š๐’”๐’•๐’†๐’, ๐‘ป๐’‰๐’†๐’ ๐‘ป๐’‚๐’๐’Œ!

Rather than worrying about what you're going to say,

Genuinely listen to the other person and your response will flow naturally.

Finish with a question.

(1)Listen
(2)Talk
(3)Ask
(4)Repeat
5. ๐‘ซ๐’๐’'๐’• ๐‘ช๐’“๐’Š๐’•๐’Š๐’„๐’Š๐’”๐’†!

'If you want to gather honey, don't kick over the beehive'

Criticism will only ever cause resentment and justification for their original actions.

Instead, ask questions. Let them figure out for themselves that there could be another solution.
These tips were mostly gathered from a book written by Dale Carnegie.

'How to Win Friends and Influence People'

I have been using these for the last few weeks and feel much more confident already.

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