Theres a strong possiblity my future significant other is going to be younger house-husband, for several reasons. I cannot already see it happening.

If not a stay-at-home dad type DEFINITELY someone more easy going and not stuck on gender roles in a relationship. I could see myself with someone who appreciates my intellect, strength and wisdom but also my nurturing and care, and men my age DO NOT seem to value those at all.

It's something I've noticed as I e gotten older. And recent events in American society has DEFINITELY made me see I'd never be happy in a traditional patriarchial focused relationship. It's just not in my character. I've always been strong willed, smart, forthright.

The characteristics I have dont match most men's ideal unless it's to uphold his status in the world or benefit him in some way. That's not even something I WANT a partner to do FOR ME. I am me, without someone telling the world or showing me off or protecting my integrity.

And maybe that is it. I've had to do so much alone its built my resilience and reasoning and decision making. I would really like someone to have FUN with. Hmm.