If you can’t make me feel your love from anywhere in the world—if you’d drop the ball on caring for my heart when it requires only regular verbal engagement and a genuine interest in learning/connecting with me via cellular device—why would I further trust you with my presence?

You will never find me out here lying about being low maintenance.

You want easy? Keep it pushing.

I’m not intentionally hard to please, but I’m a whole ass, intentionally soulful, cultivated human. I undertake self work daily.

You’re not gonna haggle me about my worth.

If they can go stretches—days or weeks without talking to you in a meaningful way—they could go days or weeks neglecting to touch you, under the same roof.

Don’t fall for it.

Hearts can want each other, but if needs and capacity aren’t aligned, someone is bound to suffer.

It’s crucial to be clear about this: needs and capacity naturally fluctuate. We grow and change through experience daily.

What’s important is that, MORE OFTEN THAN NOT, needs are communicated, validated, and addressed with care.

That should be the norm. If it’s not...