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A friend of mine asked for tips. And while I know he doesn't need it, and I pray he has a wonderful relationship that will last forever, I'll share what I think are important things when in a relationship
This is a thread
(can't believe I'm making one of these) https://twitter.com/AffanTorla/status/1293104226608926720
This is a thread
(can't believe I'm making one of these) https://twitter.com/AffanTorla/status/1293104226608926720
1) communication
I'm a magician and I read minds as an act, but remember no one can read your mind. You NEED to communicate everything with your partner. Wants needs feelings and arguments. If they don't know they can't act upon it. No, hints don't work. Be direct but loving
I'm a magician and I read minds as an act, but remember no one can read your mind. You NEED to communicate everything with your partner. Wants needs feelings and arguments. If they don't know they can't act upon it. No, hints don't work. Be direct but loving
2) trust and honesty
While you're communicating, remember to communicate everything. Don't leave anything out and NEVER EVER LIE. Even if you think it'll make them angry or sad, if they love you, they'll do their best to understand and act upon it
While you're communicating, remember to communicate everything. Don't leave anything out and NEVER EVER LIE. Even if you think it'll make them angry or sad, if they love you, they'll do their best to understand and act upon it
3) you are a team
Its you against everything else. Even when you're arguing with your partner, it's both of you vs the problem. You are looking for a solution, and never looking to fight or hurt the other person
Its you against everything else. Even when you're arguing with your partner, it's both of you vs the problem. You are looking for a solution, and never looking to fight or hurt the other person
4) give them space
Its OK to like different things, and it's OK to spend time away from each other. Go and do your hobbies, out with your friends etc. Your partner doesn't always have to be there next to you
Its OK to like different things, and it's OK to spend time away from each other. Go and do your hobbies, out with your friends etc. Your partner doesn't always have to be there next to you
4 Cont) but remember to spend time with them and try to involve your partner in your activities. Make your partner your friend's friend. If it doesn't work or they don't enjoy your hobby, it's OK. Find something else to do with them
5) be considerate and focus on your responsibilities
Forgret your rights for a second. Make sure you are doing the best and what's right for your partner, especially if you're married. Be considerate of their feelings. Only then see if you have any rights not taken care of
Forgret your rights for a second. Make sure you are doing the best and what's right for your partner, especially if you're married. Be considerate of their feelings. Only then see if you have any rights not taken care of
Finally 6) it goes both ways
You can only control what you do and say, but if your partner isn't reciprocating, send them this thread or rt it. Communicate (remember number 1?) to them how you feel. And if you've tried and tried but they don't work for your relationship?
Leave
You can only control what you do and say, but if your partner isn't reciprocating, send them this thread or rt it. Communicate (remember number 1?) to them how you feel. And if you've tried and tried but they don't work for your relationship?
Leave
