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Sexual attraction towards someone is still sexualisation. It’s just a matter of, “Did I or did I not objectify/disrespect this person?”
Example:
“H is hot.” Did not objectify.
“I want to suck H’s dick.” Did objectify.

So when you know that H is uncomfortable being looked at as a sex symbol, and then go and tweet about how you want him to do explicit things to you or vice versa, you are denying his feelings, therefore his consent. Objectification

Using you idol as fuel for you sexual fantises is fine, if you keep it to yourself. If you tweet about it, you are objectifying them.
Obviously you can be sexually attracted to H. But you need to be respectful. There’s a fine line between the two.

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Did not objectify:

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Did objectify:

He’s pretty. Of course he is. But if you want to fantisise about him, please keep it to yourself, because tweeting about it is disrespectful.
Go make a character on Wattpad.
I think he’s gorgeous, but I see him as more of a family member, I grew up with all of them.