I was a disabled child who was praised by the medical profession for walking up stairs. I was praised for going to mainstream school, for appearing ‘normal’. And do you know what that set me up for? A lifetime of approval seeking, basing my self-worth on others opinions.

I am not disputing the fact that children should feel proud no matter what their achievements. But these ‘look at what she can do!’ videos are so much more complex. The psychological effects that they have on these children and their peers should not be dismissed.

I wish I’d been taught that I didn’t have to put myself through pain to live the life I wanted. That a greater use of public money would have been adapting the school building for everyone, rather than countless physio hours forcing me, one person, to fit in with society.

I wish I’d been taught, earlier, that I don’t exist just to inspire others. That living my truth is actually the most brave and beautiful thing I can do.