Imma tell y’all this.

If you’re dating a woman who’s ON all the time & running things, many things, by the time she gets home she wants to be softer. Cared for.

There is a deep desire to have less “masculine energy” once she gets home. So fellas, whatever it is - handle that.

Also.

If you’re dating a man who’s- well, black. By the time he gets home he wants love. He wont say it, won’t hint- He just needs it & sometimes won’t even know.

There is a deep desire to want to feel loved. Make his plate, speak words of affirmation. Love him, the world dont.

I think it’s important to cognizant of what your partner needs, important for the connection not just survival. You really have to be willing.

Not just willing to do what they need but willing to grow as an individual. Both require maintenance.

Love is so scary but I wish it on everybody. The good kind. The kind that makes you feel like, this is tough but it’s worth it.

The kind that exposes your flaws BUT allows room for you to grow. That’s probably the most painful part. However, this love allows you to be YOU.

Not some watered down version of you either. Like yourself right now and in progress.

The way you talk and dress and laugh. This love accepts it all.

Keep in mind that in order to experience that you also have to allow someone that space.