when bipoc in the fandom were hurting over b/l/m, that side of the fandom made it about "bullying" adults with platforms that could help and countered that bullying by making a troll account to bully other people (often minors) for merely existing and made a lot of us feel unsafe

when bipoc speak out about questionable rep on the show, it& #39;s invalidated as "nitpicky," met with passive aggressive comments like "ffs" or they& #39;re told to "make your own rep, then"

the same people who adore doc will then call rosita or shae "bitches" and hope they d*e. shae quite literally did NOTHING wrong and the only questionable decision rosita made was to protect herself which is arguably the reason for most of doc& #39;s decisions so far as well

kate also didn& #39;t do anything wrong since doc was her HUSBAND and he constantly went TO her!!!! but this fandom hates HER for HIS actions. i wonder WHY!!!!

we have GOT to do better as a fandom and we cannot keep letting these things slip by in the name of "kindness." accountability is LOVE. if we didn& #39;t love each other and this show, we would not care enough to try and make it better.