i think what ppl don’t talk about is tht transition can alleviate ur dysphoria but ull always be trans. that’s one thing u can’t. no matter how many hormones/surgeries ull never be cis and tht puts deep depression on ppl bc they’ll never be able to achieve being cis

which is why it’s so important to accept being female and being trans because you’ll forever be unhappy if u can’t achieve something beyond reality and being unable to achieve maleness, and for some ppl this makes them stop believing in it

I’ve learned to embrace/love my transness and body, but I’ll always be reminded of the fact I’m not cis, thru jobs, relationships, healthcare, etc. but it’s easier to accept and cope with when u embrace being trans. u can be happy and trans, despite never being cis