One of my greatest mental struggles is what I call “self-induced legalism”. It’s where I can lavish grace on others while simultaneously beat myself up. I struggle giving myself grace to make mistakes.

Last night, I wanted to set up the perfect date for @ea_horton.

I quickly grew frustrated as flies tried to join us for dinner. I grew irritable each time a breeze blew and shifted the decor I set up. I grew impatient each time our kids interrupted us.

She appreciated the effort I put into our date night but noticed the irritation in my face.

I’m not looking away from the camera trying to pose, I’m looking into the blue sky of the evening watching the palm trees sway, while asking God why can’t this night be perfect!

Life isn’t perfect and when we low key expect it to be, we will be utterly disappointed. Sometimes I just need to allow the imperfections of life to happen and respond with grace so I won’t miss the moment.

I’m grateful my wife lovingly challenged me to let go of my perfectionism and stop missing “our moment”. Elicia, you’re a true treasure. Thank you for loving me in spite of all my imperfections.