From a psychological point of view ... I think this thread is important because it is our everyday reality!

In the beginning (Day 1) during a Task, while sharing key things about her she highlighted that She is still angry at her Dad. I picked up her Schemata.

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A child growing up requires stability and consistency. They require enough nurturing Emotionally and mentally. Breaking your child's trust is the worst thing you can do because that impacts and influences their interactions going forward.
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Erica's first episode of feeling down and not belonging, Kidd was there throughout. For Someone whose childhood was unstable, Kidd being there at her most vulnerable time signified a beginning of something.
She started trusting the process of adjusting to
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The new environment with someone being in her corner (Kidd) whom she had trusted with her VULNERABILITY.
I was not really aware of her friendship with someone else during week one. I found out later
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After that feeling down episode they started spending more time together. Kidd is flirtatious, subconsciously innocent surface flirting started and on Kidd's end it is a normal natural thing.
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On Erica's end feelings started brewing slowwwly. First party a lot happened Kidd was promising people babies e.t.c
He even kissed Tolanibahjand rightfully so there was nothing but innocent flirting between him and Erica.
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He then kissed Wathoni during a game as a dare. A lot happened in the first week
After that game, he and Erica had a flirtatious moment. At this point Erica expressed her Distrust as his ways of flirting around had started.
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During his flirtation Spring, Kidd planted some thoughts in the minds of housemates especially girls. They became aware of his social status and some missions began
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Erica is way of coping with attachments is upholding the inconsistency and instability, she knows that and thats her safety.
She longs for Stability and consistency but she can't trust that they are possible without consequences of her being heartbroken worse
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Like everyone of us she is aware of Kidd's flirty personality trait. But with her emotions she is hopeful that there is possibilities...completely normal!
Her other friend started pursuing and developing romantic interests
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Though her flirts with girls shamelessly so his interactions with Erica are different. On the next Truth or Dare game, He was Dared to kiss a girl He'd like to DATE in the house. He chose Erica! #BBNaija

A certain level of attachment either started or grew from the surface flirting. Honestly after that kiss, expectations kind of levelled up! And that's completely normal unfortunately Kidd's Flirtation increased. Assumingly Kidd's own romantic emotions started brewing #BBNaija

He is a very Masculine man. He was raised that way! So he is very good at masking his emotions especially when they are still immature so he soldiers on with his ego and is used to the stroking of it. #BBNaija

When you are not in touch with your soft emotions the pleasure from the ego stroking is much better and preferable. Unfortunately for Kidd Erica is actually not easily impressionable! As their thing was still at an immature phase #BBNaija

She enjoyed the attention from the other guys in the house and she made sure he is aware!
During this phase Her friend got the wrong impression from her natural sweet, playful and kindness interactions. #BBNaija

Mr Waya was kind of not happy about the ongoing joke of Erica and her husband and side niggas. They became a little distant meanwhile Erica's friend's increasingly growing romantic emotions are beginning to show as they spend more time. #BBNaija

Two people avoiding their emotions and detaching as away of managing those emotions.
Something triggered Erica's emotions and she started feeling down. Her friend tried to talk to her and she was impatient with him. #BBNaija

From patterns of her behavior especially towards her friend she is not fully forth coming when not happy about his actions. So in my view she was going through a mixture of emotions, frustration and since she has addressed her personal issues #BBNaija

They were triggered. She opened up more about her childhood wounds to Ozo, to give a little background of why she has these episodes. Kidd was listening to that conversation and I believe that encouraged him to have
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A little deep conversation with Erica to give his background of how he became who he is. He expressed not being an emotional person, not being connected with his feminine side. A little story of his upbringing. #BBNaija

I concluded that as his way of saying He does cares about her and he might not be able to display it or express it how she wants. Basically they speak a different language when it comes to expressing themselves. #BBNaija

After this more chaos, more miscommunication and more mishandling of emotional impacts from both parties followed. We all witnessed the change of behavior from Waya he started being more attentive, #BBNaija

wanting to understand her better and a lot of these were influenced by his romantic emotions And the pursuing of her friend. Meanwhile there is a shadow on a mission too.

I'll continue in the afternoon
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I want to break this down properly but know this, we love it when there is a hero in a story but thats not realistic. Both of these people are at fault and including those that played A PART in their story.
I will hold each and every role player accountable for their PART!