People really demonize black women for wanting to date up and live a life of luxury, its always “what do you bring to the table and why do you deserve that?”, a question I never see yall ask white women or “foreigns” who enjoy dating the same way. I don’t like that.

Oh and lets keep in mind, when asking black women “why we deserve” that we’re the most educated group of people and make up for more than half of the black workforce, and damn beat carry black lives on our backs. If anything we’re the MOST deserving.

Its funny because racism and the desensitization of black women is embedded so deep in some of yall that when a black women carries herself as the prize(WHICH WE ARE), many of our own people want us to sit tf down.

Calling black women “gold diggers” when we’re the most qualified group of people in this country as a whole... yea. Seems like internalized racism to me

Yall so used to seeing us not getting anything in return for all of the things we do that it literally makes yall mad when we expect something. And I want yall to explore why you feel that way....