not @uncatherio:
"I have a bit of a reputation for talking about stuff like ethics and social issues in a way that is like "lol this is so dorky, why are we even talking about this?"
it's true that I feel a little silly sometimes
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"I have a bit of a reputation for talking about stuff like ethics and social issues in a way that is like "lol this is so dorky, why are we even talking about this?"
it's true that I feel a little silly sometimes
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but I'm also aware that that's because I'm constantly reading about/thinking about these issues"
"if I can't get you to believe that I'm sincere, I'm just going to continue being sincere"
"in my model, a friendship is a *unique* thing. (there's no "kind of friendship" like "kind of animal")
And, like all unique things, it can't be defined in terms of its *difference* from other things.
It's like trying to define "triangle" by saying it's not a square.
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And, like all unique things, it can't be defined in terms of its *difference* from other things.
It's like trying to define "triangle" by saying it's not a square.
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For me, it's like a friendship *is* a point in the relationship, and I'm trying to define it as the entire line.
Like trying to define "triangle" as the "shape between a square and a circle".
But it's *not* a line - it's a point, and a unique one.
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Like trying to define "triangle" as the "shape between a square and a circle".
But it's *not* a line - it's a point, and a unique one.
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And I can "visualize" a friendship as a point. I can look at it in terms of its attributes.
But if I try to visualize the *relationship*, the actual *line*,
I get *zero*."
But if I try to visualize the *relationship*, the actual *line*,
I get *zero*."
"Re: bf
I am fascinated by how long-term love actually does change people's values
Like,
how it gets to be *obvious* that you've changed
in a way that *makes sense* to the other person, as part of their values"
I am fascinated by how long-term love actually does change people's values
Like,
how it gets to be *obvious* that you've changed
in a way that *makes sense* to the other person, as part of their values"