The strong friend role can easily turn into bondage...gotta be careful with that.
On one hand, folks think we donât go through anything. On the other...we have a hard time opening up because a lot of us donât want to be perceived as weak.
Listen, if you have a âstrong friendâ in your life thatâs great but make sure you arenât just dumping everything on them. Make sure their in a good space to even listen cause sometimes we ainât. And make sure youâre there for them to itâs not gonna kill you.
And strong friends stop confusing pride with strength. We arenât machines, weâre human too and we deserve to be vulnerable. There are ppl around us who wanna be there but canât because we got the walls up. Time to stop that.