“You need to turn to God in him you will find solace”.
You’re asking someone who is suicidal to have blind faith in a being that is also ultimately going to be responsible for their death. What if suicide is Gods plan for me to die? And if not why don’t I die on my own terms?
You’re asking someone who is suicidal to have blind faith in a being that is also ultimately going to be responsible for their death. What if suicide is Gods plan for me to die? And if not why don’t I die on my own terms?
“Suicide is selfish, you will be leaving your loved ones in pain”
In some cases, loved ones and family are responsible for someone’s suicidal thoughts. You cannot claim to love me in one breath and berate (not criticise) but berate and great me less than a human in another-
In some cases, loved ones and family are responsible for someone’s suicidal thoughts. You cannot claim to love me in one breath and berate (not criticise) but berate and great me less than a human in another-
breath. Families put so much expectations on people, and honestly in a world where you’re trying to figure out what the absolute fuck you’re doing here, having your family pressuring you into an identity is overwhelming. So leaving the world for them is a better choice
“You’re going to leave behind a family who will always be hurting because of your death”
My death to me seems like the only way to ultimately make them happy. When your loved ones sing to you words of disappointment more than words of encouragement you honestly believe that-
My death to me seems like the only way to ultimately make them happy. When your loved ones sing to you words of disappointment more than words of encouragement you honestly believe that-
in death you won’t disappoint them anymore. If you value someone’s presence and their life you have to let them know. Love is a natural emotion, feeling and expression, why do people only deserve love when you’re mourning them?
trauma takes years to unpack and honestly sometimes leaving is the easier option than reliving all the damage and unearthing the hurt. To deal with trauma you have to relive it and sometimes you undo all the progress you’ve made. I don’t want to live in that cycle
“You’re just looking for attention”
Ask yourself why the death of someone you claim to care about would command your attention more than their life? What good does your attention do to someone who is already dead? You think folks got WiFi to see the paragraphs-
Ask yourself why the death of someone you claim to care about would command your attention more than their life? What good does your attention do to someone who is already dead? You think folks got WiFi to see the paragraphs-
you’re writing about them on social media?
Everytime someone commits suicide I see the flood of messages of “I wish you had talked to me, opened up to me”. I roll my eyes because being in this position we talk and we scream so loud and you were just not listening
Everytime someone commits suicide I see the flood of messages of “I wish you had talked to me, opened up to me”. I roll my eyes because being in this position we talk and we scream so loud and you were just not listening
You only listen when an action is done. How can you care so much about someone you don’t notice the change in their patterns (no matter how active someone is there’s a change). Support the person you care about now, they don’t need your passages of love when they’re dead