Women saying “spoiling goes both ways” have never been spoiled & I KNOW it. There’s nothing spoiled about returning the favor. You spend $300 on me & the next week I spend $300 on you? MF we may as well bought our own shit. that’s not spoiling: THAT’S a transactional performance.

Soooo to my good pick me sisters, nobody said not to spoil your man if that’s what you want to do. Just don’t claim you’re spoiled yourself because that’s not the definition of spoiled. Like what do you all even think spoiled even means?!

Regardless of my personal preferences and beliefs, a lot of you are missing the point. You can’t say you’re spoiled if you’re returning the favor. Reciprocation, mutual exchange of pampering etc.... that’s just regular ol balanced relationship. Congrats. That’s not being spoiled.

The women replying that you can spoil men in other ways than money like spoiling them emotionally with love and support.....

I don’t necessarily believe in that either. lol

When you know your value there doesn’t need to be any service or performance for love/care.

I don’t wanna hear anything about your dumbass love languages

“You can do other things to spoil him, like rub his feet and cook for him”

& it’s mostly WOMEN going out their way to defend spoiling men. Not even men. Bc secure men know they don’t need to be looked after like princesses. Why are you so keen to spoil a grown. man. who has his own? What can you give him that he hasn’t given himself besides YOURself?

Lol. They keep calling me single as an insult. Only loser bitches see being single as an insult and that tells me everything I need to know. You think having a man gives you value. You sucking dick for a pat on the head I’m ignoring him for a stack. We are not the same.