I love that so many people are realizing that sex is multifaceted. It can be any combination of gentle, rough, sweet, hot, dirty, pure, etc., all while being loving. Just because a couple fucks hard doesn& #39;t mean that their intimacy isn& #39;t representative of a vast, deep connection.
It doesn& #39;t have to be deeply emotional to be good, of course. Sex is like food. Sometimes you eat out and have things you& #39;d never make at home, and sometimes a loved one makes you a handmade banquet. Sometimes you eat comfort food, and sometimes you go for steak.