food for thought for tonight: we can't control what other fans will say about our faves, but we can control our responses to them. it's a matter of whether we choose to react or not in the public sphere.

just had to air this out: i felt really iffy seeing a lot of nesses singling out one (1) hater who claimed no one's ~beautiful~ in ness fandom y'all know what i'm talking about.

granted they were mean about it, but the way the fandom responded by posting a screenshot of the twt WITH the username just didn't sit well with me. just... try to put yourself in that person's shoes? how would you feel having a horde of unknown people target you for one comment?

yes it was an offhanded comment. but if people didn't engage with it then it wouldn't have become a big deal.

gets ba?? anyway, the same thing applies to me--i can't control how you guys will react to ~tingzz~ but! this is just a reminder to be mindful of how/what u post online.

you'll never know who's hanging on the last thread, no matter how rude or nice they are. AYOWN LANG good night dami kong keme tonight haha 11pm tingz