Dominant men respond to women more directly, explaining answers less, or being silent, not needing to speak.

She needs to follow him, not vice-versa

Yet I think over time, this exercise in frame control by its nature, lacks true masculine finesse

Here's why

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You can make a woman feel safe and provided for through your mental composure.

This will satisfy her hind brains criteria for leadership

But leaders don't often make the best lovers

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I believe over time that attraction can wane without knowing how to actively penetrate her mind

Natural seducers know how to "meet" a woman where she is emotionally, mirror her body language, listen carefully and empathize, and build tension mischievously

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The more value you can bring to the table the better. Mystery is appealing, plain and simple.

The more complex you are, the more attractive you are

Don't be a one trick pony with your boundaries and stoicism,

Keep her guessing

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