I’ve been drinking wine all afternoon and evening and, hoo boy, I got some thoughts I’ve been thinking.
1) try to be kind to yourself. This is such a shit time and it’s normal to be pissed, sad, and frustrated. My mood is crap but I know some of this is temporary. 1/

2) I turn 47 this month and, let me tell you, sometimes you just can’t give a fuck what others think or demand from you. It doesn’t make you difficult or an asshole. 2/

3) you are allowed to change and grow as a person. You’re allowed to “outgrow” people. It doesn’t make you cruel or a bad person. Your interests can change. Your personality can, too. Don’t let anyone make you feel bad for growing and changing. Let them go in peace. 3/

4) I REALLY REALLY love moscato. And the Corn Palace. 4/