Today’s point of emphasis: Personal relationships—both romantic and platonic—should be about fostering continuous growth and fulfillment. Life is too short to tie yourself to toxicity.

Value your relationships based on what you’re each bringing to the table RIGHT NOW. Living in the past and romanticizing about the future both pave way for unhealthy expectations and disillusionment.

I’m guilty of both of these things as I am a very anxious person by nature. I need control and order in my life, especially when it comes to the people I associate with. I’m still learning how to surround myself with people who push me to become a better version of myself...

...instead of allowing myself to become infatuated by, “but this person used to do X for me,” or, “this person seems like they could help me deal with Y”

To all my fellow people dealing with this right now: I’m here with you, let’s grow together