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I am comfortable with all pronouns, but I do wish someone could use he for me for even once
I had to repost bc I felt like I worded this badly klsfhshlks
The thing is, whenever I& #39;m talking about my masculinity, most people tell me that "you are what you feel like you are", or that "you& #39;re valid". But no one really tells me that I am masculine, or that I& #39;m a butch. And I know masculinity is subjective and only I can tell what my ->
identity is, but to me it just often feels like people think I& #39;m just trying to be or just want to be masculine. (And if you& #39;ve told me either one of those previous sentences, I don& #39;t mean that it& #39;s bad that you& #39;ve said those, bc they don& #39;t do any harm for me)
I& #39;m still struggling with my gender identity and I don& #39;t really know what I am, but I only know that my gender expression is definitely on the masculine side, and I wanna look as masculine as possible. Obviously I can& #39;t ever look like what I want to, but I try my best.
I know this probably seems like pointless whining, but I& #39;ve been told more than once that I& #39;m more feminine, that I& #39;m not butch at all, etc., even by people who are close to me. So sometimes I& #39;m even doubting it all myself.
I hope this doesn& #39;t seem like I demand people to reassure me that I& #39;m masculine or to tell me that I& #39;m a butch, even though the beginning of this thread may seem like it.
This thread is probably confusing, but I think my point it that I just wish to be perceived as masculine, if that makes sense?
I might delete this thread later if I get too anxious kfhklsfhlsdfl
