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I am comfortable with all pronouns, but I do wish someone could use he for me for even once
I had to repost bc I felt like I worded this badly klsfhshlks
The thing is, whenever I'm talking about my masculinity, most people tell me that "you are what you feel like you are", or that "you're valid". But no one really tells me that I am masculine, or that I'm a butch. And I know masculinity is subjective and only I can tell what my ->
identity is, but to me it just often feels like people think I'm just trying to be or just want to be masculine. (And if you've told me either one of those previous sentences, I don't mean that it's bad that you've said those, bc they don't do any harm for me)
I'm still struggling with my gender identity and I don't really know what I am, but I only know that my gender expression is definitely on the masculine side, and I wanna look as masculine as possible. Obviously I can't ever look like what I want to, but I try my best.
I know this probably seems like pointless whining, but I've been told more than once that I'm more feminine, that I'm not butch at all, etc., even by people who are close to me. So sometimes I'm even doubting it all myself.
I hope this doesn't seem like I demand people to reassure me that I'm masculine or to tell me that I'm a butch, even though the beginning of this thread may seem like it.
This thread is probably confusing, but I think my point it that I just wish to be perceived as masculine, if that makes sense?
I might delete this thread later if I get too anxious kfhklsfhlsdfl
