#SidNaaz live- A thread addressing some questions.

So, I wanted to write few things but I waited for a while to rethink what had been going in my head & even discuss it with my mom for over a cup of tea & I think I am ready to address some of the questions & doubts which have been circulating around.

Disclaimer: This thread is

purely based on my interpretation of the events & if u aren't in the mood of reading or tolerating someone's POV, just scroll to the next post on ur TL.

1) Cutting straight to the point, I am gonna use this live as evidence to dismay the rumours which had been circulating a

few days back about their break-up.
Imma let u use ur brain & answer me:

Do they look like a couple to u who have recently had a break-up?
Does she look like a girl to u who isn't happy with the man she is sitting beside?
Does he look like a man to u who isn't happy with the

woman he is sitting beside?

Now, if ur answer is yes, then I would recommend you get in touch with ur family physician & get a referral for a clinical psychiatrist.

2) I saw a few Tweets/comments where people were concerned that Sid is manipulating her & only planned the live

to promote his song & that he wanted her to blurt out something stupid about Himanshi or that he was trying to demean her & clear his image.

Okay, I got that & here is the thing.

When I think about them, I don't isolate event but take their entire journey into account & focus

on the factors which lead from one thing to another.

I am not defending him or demeaning him, I am sharing my thought process & reasoning.

If Sid wanted to use her for her own gain, wouldn't declaring a relationship with Shehnaaz bring him more fame & popularity?

If he had

wanted to use her, wouldn't getting a commitment from her in BB house be better than asking her to wait & think about the factors (age) which could affect her decision/feelings about him?

If he now announces that they are a couple, they would get much more popular than

they are getting currently.

If his intentions were to gather clout, he would have done what Asim & Himanshi did or what Arhaan & Rashmi did.

Now coming to the question why did he clarify himself in the IG?

Well, at first, I was also skeptical about it until I took my own

behaviour into consideration over the past few days where I tried reasoning with dumb clowns and clarified my self again & again despite people asking me not to.

Reason: Dumb logic gets under my skin.
Sid has the same thing, Dumb logic gets under his skin.

Now, he is more

active on Twitter & we all know that the toxicity on Twitter is >>>>>>>>>>>> on Instagram.

On top of that, he is already an overthinker + has a fair share of insecurities which ANY FREKIN HUMAN BEING WOULD!

We had all agreed that he had a fair share of insecurities in BB

regarding Sana that she might leave him & all given his rough luck with his past relationships.

Now, I am not saying that he doesn't trust Sana but those fears/insecurities will always remain deep inside him & take a lot of time to fade away. & u know why? because he is a human

not a god.

Finding someone in your late 30s, who is 13 years younger than you and is loved by all may seem like a fairy tale to u but it isn't.

I have said this before & I will say it again, it isn't easy to love someone who is loved by all.

Hence, that constant fear that

one day she might leave ain't going anywhere anytime soon & guess what? Sana knows that so don't worry much cuz she knows & she has chosen to be with him knowing it all.

When u come on Twitter & see a bunch of fellas talk about something u r already insecure about, it triggers

u, it hurts u.

U don't want people misunderstanding u & u wanna clarify urself & sometimes while doing that, u unintentionally get rude to hide the hurt & fear deep inside u.

This isn't about right or wrong but just how things work. How a normal human thinks & process his/her

emotions.

Being realistic, he knows very well that Sana still has a lot of years to invest in the industry while he on the other hand in on the stage where he soon will have to settle down if he plans on having his own family so, do u now kind of understand the underlying

fears & worries I am trying to highlight?

He comes on Twitter, sees the tweets, starts overthinking + the fear of losing her also isn't helping + his competitive nature + dumb logic is getting under his skin + the hurt is there but his brain is too proud to register that & all

of this results in him trying to clarify himself that no, he isn't using Shehnaaz (if he wanted that, there are a lot of better ways to do so).

Some of u go onto damage a person's proud by age shaming him, saying that he needs work, Shehnaaz is the one giving him word & all

other taunts, do u not think that it gets to him?
Makes him feel bad & hurt?
Makes him angry & frustrated? He might not show it but he is a human who has got feelings.

Now again, Toxicity on Twitter >> IG (where Shehnaaz is more active).

So yeah, if a person like Sid who is

hella competitive takes into account even the tiniest of details & is soft like a coconut on the inside is exposed to certain allegations, he is gonna react in his own way human psychology justifies that. Again, it isn't about right or wrong right now but just how one thing leads

to another. The GG & Himanshi thing seems like honest joke to me right now. Remember, he is the one who had asked Sana to notch it down a bit when she had shared her thoughts about women smoking & drinking cuz he knew that she would be perceived wrong.

From where I see it,

y'all sometimes expect too much. Some of u expect him to be perfect & some of u already consider him a god. whereas in reality, they both are merely human beings with flaws & insecurities we pretty much all share in our daily life & relationships. If he wanted to put her down,

there r a lot better ways to do so.

I watched him in BB & how he maintained a dignified silence on the Rashmi issues for as long as he could but he was never the one to initiate a discussion about him to gather clout.

There comes a time in ur life, when u have to trust ur

instincts & listen to what ur heart feels & when it comes to him, I at least yet cannot agree with that he can ever knowingly use a woman for his gain & I am not saying it cuz of #SidNaaz but just because of what I have analyzed about him as an individual. He is a person with

morals & I have just sensed & seen that in BB. Lemme give u an example of a person who isn't moral, Paras. He is the type of person who would use women (as seen in the case of Akansha), abuse them or & manipulate them & that had become so apparent throughout his journey in BB.

but I just never did sense Sid getting jealous of Sana or intentionally doing something without a strong reason which drove him to do some questionable things which I think even I or someone else would have done.

At the end of the day, I will again exert that if something isn't

genuine or pure, it will never have the ability to win over so many hearts around the globe.

If the feelings weren't pure at both ends, it would never have had the power to make us all smile, & laugh & cry & feel the storm of emotions we feel seeing them together.

I don't even think about or even care if they live together or not or if they will get married or not.... I just watch them & get happy & learn from them.

We cannot control what happens in their lives but we can help try to create a positive environment & cherish the valuable

memories and lessons they both have given us.

So yeah, cheers to #SidNaaz & the love they have shared with us all!

@sidharth_shukla please read it & declare me the best Sidheart on Twitter