there is a big issue w mlm/nblm being treated poorly in the community rn but can we please stop fucking blaming everything on lesbians 24/7 please

i know some lesbians r stepping out of line and being shitty rn but yall have a fucking disgusting obsession with making lesbians out to be oppressors. whether it be blatantly hating lesbians, or subtly making them into the bad guy in every situation, possibly without knowing

yall are hypercritical of lesbians 24/7 and it fucking sucks. i will never ever forget how yall tried to cancel emily gwen the second someone accused her of stealing a flag (that she didnt even steal) without any proof. this happens constantly. we are always treated like this

you may not even realize it but most of you hold lesbians to WAY higher expectations than you do people of other sexualities.

we are excluded from pride constantly, we are constantly harassed and called "exclusionists" by other community members for Being Lesbians, we are the butt of the joke every time someone makes a post about shitty people in the community, and it fucking sucks

we are fucking struggling right now. we are all being treated like shit. treating lesbians like shit and making us out to be some scary evil LGBT community villains isnt the fucking solution to this problem. end of fucking conversation

and by we, i mean ALL of us - everyone in the lgbt community is going thru the fucking wringer rn. you being treated like shit by people within the community is not a fucking excuse to turn that over onto other members of the community

muting