I hate how much struggle love is romanticized. It really makes me feel like my idea of what love is isn’t realistic. I shouldn’t endure pain & suffering just to prove that i love someone. This world is already hard as it is & I’d rather suffer alone than suffer for someone else
There isn’t any medal to win for sticking by someone that is not good for you. I’m never risking my mental & emotional health for a man to say “she stuck with me even tho i treated her like sh*t”. Its so embarrassing & sounds like self-betrayal to me
i know what i will/won’t tolerate when it comes to love. I honestly believe if you force patience & tolerate shit, you’re just building resentment. How many times have we seen women regretting what they tolerated in their relationships bc they didn’t get what they expected?
Walk away when you know it isn’t serving you anymore :)