consistent & open communication. it also helps to keep in mind that none of us could’ve predicted the turnout of this year so it’s out of our hands really. idk, it sucks no lie but i love him and my feelings for him matter most. https://twitter.com/aldrinsampear/status/1289510940128362497

i agree that it’d be easier to start anew with someone closer but hey man, i love this boy so i’ll wait. i don’t think i can replicate this feeling with someone else, i don’t want to either.

also he treats me so well yoh
i was so panicky when lockdown began, thinking that our relationship wasn’t going to be able to withstand it. yathi indoda yam “not on my watch” and hhayi sana indeed it didn’t happen.

love how this turned into a thread but chepu is too good to me my dudes. he brings peace, joy and a sense of calmness that quite frankly i’ve never experienced before. im not passing that shit up, forget

obvs if the relationship turns sour, toxic or like unpleasant it’ll call for an intervention but for now im too happy sana ehlangene ne distance, i’ll leave it to the universe.