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Got a few asking me about how I knew I was ready for marriage (got married very young) or if I have marriage advice (especially being Bi) and so Iâll make a quick thread and just ignore me 
about how I knew when I was ready- the only advice I can give besides the very cheesy âI just knewâ is that marry the person that even if you were to fall out of love or passion you would still like them more than anyone else. if youâre genuinely best friends marriage is a breeze
What if youâre opposites- my husband & I are as opposite as you can get! Heâs an Aquarius Iâm a Taurus & Iâm loud & he is quiet. But it works for us & we have things in common! IMO the only things you canât be opposites on are racism, homophobia, or any other integral morrals
Specifically on being bi & marrying someone straight- this is about respect. Homophobia is not a compromise itâs a deal breaker. Bc Iâm Bi and married someone of the opposite gender I am invalidated as bisexual constantly. That wouldnât have been tolerated in a marriage. (Cont.)
Itâs incredibly important that my husband does not just accept my bisexuality but vehemently SUPPORTS IT. I joke a lot about who Iâm attracted to- but that is something personally ok in my marriage. Itâs important that you and your partner have boundaries BUT (cont.)
Those boundaries shouldnât be set specifically on you alone bc youre âattracted to more people.â Bi people are not automatically more promiscuous. Communication. Donât let problems build up. It works both ways as well! If youâre going through this my dms are open 
