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wheelchair pushing ettiquette
wheelchair pushing ettiquette
Ask before touching anyone's mobility aid for any reason. If they say they've got it, leave it be, even if it looks difficult. Let them know they can ask you for a break at any time, but give them their space, because they know what they're doing more than you do.
On a lot of custom chairs, the handles are adjustable. Ask them if it's okay to adjust them, and adjust as needed. Make sure you're in a safe spot to do so.
PLEASE be aware of our casters. They're the little wheels in the front and they're a bitch to work with. they will get caught in anything they can. That's why wheelies are a thing; to get casters out of the mess.
following my previous point, one of my absolute pet peeves is riding the lines. If their wheels are parallel to a crack in the sidewalk, don't ride that line! stay in the middle of possible! their wheels can and will get slotted into the crack.
when there a big crack, slow down! you will quite possibly toss your person out of their chair! Tip them slightly backwards so that their casters are above the crack/ledge, tilt back down so the casters are on the ledge, then heft up the back end so the big wheels can go up too.
traversing grass and gravel is possible, but very bumpy and not fun at all. To do this, wheelie. Wheelie the whole time. do not involve the casters in any way shape or form. and before you go on any terrain like that, ask the person if they are ok to go through it.
everyone is different, but you can let go of me to open the door for me, lol. it's not like my arms don't work. It just makes it more difficult and weird if you try to do some weird sideways shit.
if you need a break from pushing, just say so or ask! I'll take over for you. And I'll gladly carry any bags you have so your arms are free, just ask me :) I'm not a huge fan if you just throw your bag on the back of my chair without letting me know or asking first though.
wheelchairs are made to tip backwards easily for wheelies. That means please do not under any circumstances lean on the back of the chair or try to mount it. this shouldn't been have to be said but it happens so often. It makes me want to cry.
custom chairs are a lot more versatile and can go on rough terrain but be aware that hospital chairs are not meant to be used outdoors so if you absolutely have to use it, keep on flat sidewalks and be careful. They're super uncomfy so try to make the ride smooth if you can.
To wrap this up, I don't speak for all disabled people but these are my experiences with strangers learning to push my chair. It never hurts to communicate and ask questions. But please don't ask more than once. We know what we're doing. Thanks!
