SEX - A TALE OF TWO CITIES
"Mummy! Open the door!" Your kids whining and knocking you should open the door, just as you are approaching bliss is a reality singles hardly factor into the sexual fantasies of a married life, as they dream about having sex pitched on a coffee table.

I've seen singles wonder here, how it is possible for the married to go weeks without sex? It is a valid curiosity. I also didn't know I wont be having sex on kitchen cabinets and balconies until t'was apparent the only house I can afford has neither kitchen cabinet nor balcony.

Men are mostly driving by status & accomplishments, beginning from choosing a woman. Being married is also seen as part of this accomplishments. How long each one will be married before bothering about things that are yet to be achieved depends on the chemistry between spouses.

Its likely the generation after mine would have less sex in marriage. The sex life of a young Nigerian in UK had broken down completely, just in 3yrs of marriage. He explained he's barely aroused at his wife's nakedness because living together now make him see her as a sister.

Work & financial stress may have accounted for loss of interest in sex between couples in the past. Raising children, and the attendant socioeconomic pressure are known attenuating factors. The role religion played at making sex unattractive in marriage is story for another day.

At a wedding sermon late last year, I remembered a preacher admonishing the bride not to take offence if the man doesn't make her cum. "If you don't cum today, you will cum another day." Ironically, he's unaware men who cant make women cum at home are the big bangbros, outside.

As an emerging trend today, Interest in sex between young couples will be largely governed by social constructs imbibed from social media. And women are the ones leading the Lord's prayer on this matter, and the men too are continually chasing some elusive orgasms.

Many of you will enter into marriage with a pornhub mindset, and you will get there to meet huge disappointments. A large number of eligible men out there have become dependent on aphrodisiacs, to prove a point, only for them to start declaring force majure after getting married.

A lady who believed her husband had become impotent continued to pray sex will be restored in her barely 2yrs marriage. Her man died few days ago of cardiac shock from sex enhancement drug, after taking a bet on threesome. He left d world, following d road through which he came.