UNPOPULAR OPINION : if a woman wants a tall man, handsome, big dick with loads of money nothing is wrong with that. If a man want a lady under 140lbs, perfect hair, perfect skin, and a chef nothing is wrong with that either.

Just be yourself and do you. Don’t be mad somebody don’t wanna talk to you or deal with you because you don’t make a certain amount of money or because you don’t look a certain way etc. it is what it is. Deal with people who wants YOU.

Y’all be mad at the world looking dumb asf. Just be the best version of yourself and the person that it right for you will come along. Stop dating if you struggling or still need to improve yourself.

And stop being so damn desperate to be with somebody. That’s how y’all, BOTH men and women, be getting played like fucking chess. Upgrade yo self nigga! Get yo shit together.

I promise y’all it’s okay to be alone for a bit to get ya shit together. It’s kinda peaceful actually. Just try it. And stop being a fucking incel. Thanks.

Y’all always call a woman a gold digger when her man provides for her, and mind you, he gives her money with his consent. I. Just. Don’t. Get. It.

And if a lady wanna cook and clean for her man DON’T call her a pick me. That’s wtf they into. And it works for them. Some women like to take care of the household and it’s nothing wrong with that.

One last thing I’m sorry this thread long as fuck . The reason I keep using man and woman is because I’m a straight woman. But of course this applies to any gender, sexuality and anybody period. Bottom line stop being desperate, stick to your standards, and be yourself.