one time i had sex with a guy and i told him that i hadn’t cum and he was like “yeah the orgasm gap is crazy”

everyone projecting their opinions about gender and sex onto this funny thing that happened to me one time is annoying lol

particularly obsessed w people implying i have a repeatedly unsatisfying sex life because of this tweet, or blaming me for this? please tell me the actionable 7 steps i can take to avoid this exact situation lmao

like yeah it was bad sex so i tried to communicate what i wanted and he didn’t communicate,,,, in a funny way,,,,,, so we didn’t have sex again? bad sex isn’t like world shattering and it’s weird to project that i think it is onto me