One day we will have this conversation of how most of u take no time to actually have knowledge in anything else.

Conversation is flat, u can’t stimulate someone mentally, you don’t know how to engage, but let’s keep pretending that speaking in tongues makes up for these things.

You hide behind “let’s do bible study & prayer call” on the first day u want to speak to a person because the truth about u lacking basic knowledge outside of that will show.

Let’s pretend that all we’ll do is this for the rest of our lives.
One day we’ll have this conversation

God forbid you are called out on these things.
Your response is “Ehn this one is carnal”.

Let’s continue to pretend that your inability to contribute significantly to anything that interests a person is attractive.
Let’s continue to pretend.

God forbid that you take correction.

“Oh she wants a bad boy”.

No, sir.

I don’t want to die of boredom. That’s why I don’t want you.

I don’t want to perish from only praying, reading bible and speaking in tongues.
Even Jesus wants me to be well rounded.

If this makes me carnal in your book I’ll rather be that.

Let’s continue to act like you deserve a relationship because you’re great at speaking in tongues and can recite Bible.

Where is the personality that should interest me?
Where are the conversation skills?
How about the dressing nice?
Where is the effort?

After tongues, then?

It is so exhausting.
It’s the same thing over and over again.

If correction was something some of u were open to taking it’s a different thing.
“Oh she is so carnal. She doesn’t want to pray 24/7”.

Sorry o.
Deputy Holy Spirit.

Some of u even use it as conversation starters.

No getting to know me.
No showing up with your personality.
I love Jesus.
You love Jesus.

We’ve established this.

We are nothing without him.
Also established.

Who are you outside of not praying?

Why is a prayer link your way of breaking the ice?
What is the issue?

Then when a person doesn’t click that prayer link you start to ‘behave somehow’.

You’ll now want the person to feel guilty for not wanting to click prayer link because you lack a personality.

Some of you sef even sense of humor is problem.
It’s like your salvation will lost.

Do you people realize that this thing is built?

Do you know that the wanting to study the Bible and pray etc is something that you build small small?

Where did this thing of bombarding someone with prayer link start from as getting to know me?
Where did it come from?

Why is it there?

Why are u letting me know in the first three conversations that you pray for 12hours?
How exactly is this my business?

Is it meant to be attractive?
Am I meant to now fall head over heels for you?
Is this where the crush starts?

Why is it in the conversation?

As in what is the exact issue?

Did they tell you that if you pick interest in anything else you’ll be stripped of the salvation you have?

If you made an effort Jesus will hate you?

One day we will have this conversation.
I’m going to eat food.

Xx

Let’s remember that this is both genders.

Let’s remember it as were kiki’n away.
It’s both genders.

Remain blessed.

Now that we’ve all read the thread & we all see that it’s a general issue.

The one day for that conversation is a podcast episode that comes out this weekend.

Just like the dating podcast there are contributions from a lot of people on the topic.
We discuss solutions as well.