i recently learned that i legitimately like to be spoiled and taken care of. i need grand gestures of love, hand written letters, something to show me you were just thinking of me.

i was a “i dont need much to please me” type of bitch and it took me forever to realize im never content in relationships bc it never feels like enough. i felt unappreciated or like there was no reciprocity, BECAUSE i was accepting the bare minimum just to experience love.

failed relationships show us what we DONT want. it shows you what you need to work on and heal. know your worth, RESPECT your worth, and dont settle for shit less than what you deserve.

i didnt expect this to turn into a rant LMAO but i feel like someone needs to hear it. don’t shift your relationship values to align yourself with somebody else & their path. what’s meant for you will be, & someone with the same heart will find you IN PERFECT TIMING. patience.

with that being said it is IMPERATIVE that my partner is my best friend bc i need depth, that stability *chefs kiss*