Following your mission, your passion, is an attractive trait.

Girls or friends aren't your ultimate goal. They are fun, and can enrich your life. Not define it.

Keep a strong frame. Build a powerful life style. You are the prize. Others gravitate towards you.

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Where do you start?

Know your mission. Write it down. It may take a while. Take your time.

It is short - most essential stuff that defines what you stand for.

Know your values, your passions, your strenghs, and write:

1- what you want to achieve

2- how you want to achieve it

It's an iterative process.

Write a version.

Let it be for a bit. Reflect. Adjust it. Repeat.

At some point it will start to feel just right.

I wrote my mission over 10 years ago.

3-4 lines I trully evaluate, review, and make sure remain true to every year.

I ask myself - Anything changed? Have I made progress? Do I remain true to it?

I then course correct when needed - Adjust, calibrate, improve. And move forward.