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1/ This is what emotional manipulation *really* looks like.
A shaming tactic that tries to foster obedience through an implied morality, a morality that one may not agree with. https://twitter.com/ahsanirfan1985/status/1287595930833661958?s=20
A shaming tactic that tries to foster obedience through an implied morality, a morality that one may not agree with. https://twitter.com/ahsanirfan1985/status/1287595930833661958?s=20
2/ They could have been a lot more honest by just saying that they didn't like what I said.
3/ It's astounding how often this happens in marriages, where one spouse tries to "trick" the other into behaving in a way suitable to them, by appealing to some sort of a standard, instead of simply being honest and saying that "this is what I'd like you to do."
4/ The former is a trick, where, when you do no comply, the other spouse can fall back on the "well, *real men/women* would do this XYZ thing I want you to do."
The latter is where you're giving the other party room to accept your reject the request for compliance.
The latter is where you're giving the other party room to accept your reject the request for compliance.
5/ If you do this, stop it.
If your spouse does it, call them out on it.
If your spouse does it, call them out on it.
