why is everyone going on about the Teenage Love Triangle on folklore and neglecting the Coriolanus song cycle of “exile” and “this is me trying”

hey come back

“And it's hard to be at a party when I feel like an open wound”
Coriolanus hates having to display his wounds to the people in order to beseech their voices to make him consul

“I don’t know quite what to say, but I’m here in your doorway
I just wanted you to know that this is me trying”

Coriolanus makes an effort but the obvious bad grace of this effort helps turn the people against him

Coriolanus yells at the populace so much that he gets banished from Rome, a source of regret
yet his martial prowess is so ahead of the curve that the curve is a sphere (“there is a world elsewhere”)
he leaves and pours out his heart to Tullus Aufidius of the Volsci

that his cages were mental (his pride!) goes without saying
yet as with Taylor, every wound that he bears is “an enemy’s grave”

“exile” encompasses both Coriolanus’s banishment from Rome AND foreshadows aufidius’s betrayal!
HER MIND

honestly I think this is self-explanatory

(oh no I’ve overcommitted to this bit!)
is Bon Iver Rome, watching a disaffected Coriolanus seek the clasp of the leader of the Volscians? (“with his arms around your body”) (“let me twine mine arms about that body”)

or is Bon Iver a rueful Coriolanus watching Rome recede behind him? Is Taylor Rome, or a mistrustful Aufidius seeing Coriolanus gain in stature among the Volscians at his own expense?

regardless, Coriolanus should not have been blindsided by Aufidius’s growing resentment and betrayal (SPOILERS OOPS)
“you never gave a warning sign”?
“I gave so many signs”
treating Aufidius like “just your understudy” was a bad move

Coriolanus’s cycle of trying, exile, and betrayal is deftly interwoven in both these songs
“There is no amount
Of cryin' I can do for you” is the play’s central lament— everyone is always crying the wrong amount, trying ineptly, always about to betray themselves or be betrayed

I think that’s it on this Absolutely Sound And For Sure Textually Grounded Coriolanus/folklore exegesis

/does this mean Blake Lively’s next child is going to be named Volumnia