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WAKE NOT LOVE: CHAPTER ONE: THE BLESSEDNESS OF KEEPING YOUR VIRGINITY.
An Exclusive interview with Dr. Caleb Idowu.
Remain Blessed.
An Exclusive interview with Dr. Caleb Idowu.
Remain Blessed.
1. PEA: Dr., I saw you make a daring statement on your Facebook wall; that's exactly why I decided to chat you up so I can interrogate the issue in details.
2. I know you to be a medical doctor and sex therapist and so anything you say should be reliable scientifically and medically. What you said is reproduced below:
"Sexual appetites are easiest to tame when you're naive. Your naivety is a blessing...
"Sexual appetites are easiest to tame when you're naive. Your naivety is a blessing...
3. ..."If you think virginity isn't dignity jump on this thread let me shred you! You're fortunate to be a virgin, never let anyone make you feel otherwise! Even if it was just lack of opportunity for you, it's still a blessing!
4. Once you become sexually active, you will need to regularly feed that appetite.
Just delay until you're ready to start having regular sexual experiences. If you think virginity isn't dignity, don't run away oooo.
Just delay until you're ready to start having regular sexual experiences. If you think virginity isn't dignity, don't run away oooo.
5. Just come here and let's argue small. I have your time and energy today!
Delaying the loss of your virginity does not cause more pain. And if you're afraid, beep me when you're ready, I'll guide you through with instructions for free.
Delaying the loss of your virginity does not cause more pain. And if you're afraid, beep me when you're ready, I'll guide you through with instructions for free.
6. Those of you that started sleeping around since 13yrs wetin you gain other than "e dey sweet body." But if I start listing what you could've lost now, you'll feel horrible. My goal is not to hurt you; just to share some sense."
7. So Dr, What do people lose by not keeping their virginity?
Dr. Caleb: First, naivety along side its innocence is like egg once its broken, it can never be retrieved. As obviously emphasized, sexual urges are almost untameable for sexually active individuals...
Dr. Caleb: First, naivety along side its innocence is like egg once its broken, it can never be retrieved. As obviously emphasized, sexual urges are almost untameable for sexually active individuals...
8. ...So once the individuals start having sex (good sex) it's almost impossible to stop. Sex is extremely addictive, stimulating the same area of the brain as cannabis.
9. PEA: What does s/he lose if s/he is unable to stop? How is this a negative?
Dr. Caleb: The addiction makes them lose control over their lives sometimes in similar ways to recreation drugs. Going any length, doing anything possible to have sex...
Dr. Caleb: The addiction makes them lose control over their lives sometimes in similar ways to recreation drugs. Going any length, doing anything possible to have sex...
10. ...This can potentially become a source of income loss. These people can pay their lives to ensure they have sex when the uncontrollable urge ( konji) comes over them...
11. ...Sometimes, this can become so problematic that it may lead to crimes such as rape. The urge can be so overwhelming that they are unable to focus on any meaningful thing when it comes...
