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Men in thier 20s will kill you with the girls my age want older men theory whilst in turn will also generally want a women thier age without baggage... We are 27 driving towards the same goal I will ofcourse have the same baggage you do if not more.
We also have families to take care of and careers to start, as much as society wants us to believe that men have bigger responsibilities then men. Look around you, how many women in thier 20s are taking care of thier families. Men in thier 30s and 40s tend to understand that.
Some women in thier 20s are taking care of thier siblings because of thier parents choices. Men in thier 30s/40s will understand your story whilst men in thier 20s will never. They want you to go partying with them with your last cent but will never even loan you a dollar
We understand men in thier 20s don't have the means financially and are working towards thier goals. But emotionally, are y'all emotionally ready for a relationship. If i were to get pregnant would you be present and step up to the responsibility
I've date 3 men and spotted the difference between all three
1. 4 years my senior,broke my virginity, got me pregnant. Was working and had a good job, three years later to only find out our son couldn't talk. He didn't say anything but he's actions told me everything
1. 4 years my senior,broke my virginity, got me pregnant. Was working and had a good job, three years later to only find out our son couldn't talk. He didn't say anything but he's actions told me everything
The other agurment was he wanted to be with me, loved me but could not love his child. I took as a he couldn't communicate but only to later on realise he just didn't love him. It took a long time for me to understand that he was never going to be part of this child's life
2. My age, we were together for about 80% of my varsity life. He didn't have a child and there were always trust issues. I think he thought I'd somehow wander back to the father of my child which was not true...
No lies we were good together, but it was also emotionally draining, he always wanted more. Going out partying and drinking every weekend, man I've got things to do a family to take care of. Can we agree that going out every weekend requires alot from a girl or am I just poor
Partying every weekend requires clothes, hair and makeup. You have to have your own money, never know when you might need an uber. How with just above R2 500 per month... Even now I can't afford to party every weekend
3. 13 years older, everything was taken care of laphana.i can't really explain it but everything was taken care of... Too bad I found out he was married.
In conclusion, leave women in thier 20s alone... Men our age must stop playing victim y'all know yall hate baggage
In conclusion, leave women in thier 20s alone... Men our age must stop playing victim y'all know yall hate baggage
This thread however is my own personal experience and my opinion on another thread... My thoughts are everywhere, I know, catch up, this how I'm like in real life
Most women in thier 20s still believe in love and marriage. Women in thier 30s have already seen what marriage did to their friends and they want no part in it
This thread isn't about the father of my child he's crazy that's a story for another day
