I gotta put this here because idk normalise talking about this.

I identify as Agender, have for a long ass time, I just wasn't sure how to say it.

I dont care much about pronouns, I just go by she/her because its easiest, being afab, not because I have any connection to it.

They/Them and He/Him also make me happy, feel less forced to be one thing when I know I'm not. I do like more masculine or neutral terms when it comes to things, but whatever is fine.

Its been bugging me bc I dont think everyone here even knows and wanted it clear it up.

My close family are completely aware (they have been for years) and dont mind. (My mother doesn't even call me "a girl" anymore. She lovingly calls me "the butch genderweird one".)

Idm what you call me really, so long as you consider it, really.

I struggled a lot with this because being perfectly female never suited me, and even though I'm kinda masc, neither did male. Nothing quite fits me, and then i realised it doesnt matter, I dont need to be anything at all. Gender isn't real, its just brain chemicals. So fuck it.

Really, if you arent fine with NB or agender identities, feel free to fuck off. Thats also why I'm making this.

For any dumb fuck who find my profile and don't realise its run by someone beyond queer.