Men who actually love you and care about you, or even remotely like you, want to see you relaxed and happy. It’s simple.

They hate to see you struggle or regularly take on masculine roles [as a woman].

People keep asking me what a “masculine” or “feminine” role is. If you’re an adult, you can take what that means for you.

When men can make you feel comfortable enough to “be” so they can “do,” then it’s a beautiful balance.

Personally, I don’t view women and men to be anything alike. I don’t have any desire to be like a man OR exude masculine energy all of the time.

If that’s what you want and like, then more power to you.

Femininity + masculinity are not bound by gender, by any means, and we all carry traits from both.

However, most women naturally carry more feminine traits of being intuitively guided, interdependent, collaborative, and nurturing.

On the other hand, a lot of men naturally exhibit more masculine traits of assertive, protective, and action-oriented.

Our overall upbringing and socialization can determine which aspects we decide to take on the most.

This new age of feminism and dating has many of you lost.

Some of you view femininity as weaker than masculinity and have been offended when the two are simply different.

Femininity is softer, relaxed, yet still powerful. Don’t be fooled.