lesbians can like women and nonbinary people so then they can be bi lesbian because they like more than one gender too (a thread)

straight people can like the opposite gender and nonbinary people so then they can be bi straight because they like more than one gender, and the opposite

gay people can like men and nonbinary people so then they can be bi gay because they like more than one gender

biromantic monosexuals can be bi gay or bi straight or bi lesbian

monoromantic bisexuals can be bi gay or bi straight or bi lesbian

bi people can have trauma averse a certain gender and be bi gay or bi straight or bi lesbian

bi people can have a strong connection to the monosexual community that they have been assumed to be in their whole lives and be bi gay or bi straight or bi lesbian

bi people can have a preference so strong for one gender enough to feel like they might be monosexual but still recognise that they're not, and be bi gay or bi straight or bi lesbian (a label more COMFORTABLE than "comphet" for some people)

no other sexuality is damaged by the labels each of these people choose to use for themselves, there are probably more reasons that people use these labels but NONE. OF. THEM. are malicious or out to hurt you. there are many links you can make to other people and how they +

MIGHT respond to this label and start generalising people based on it, but who's fault is that???? we're not the ones doing that!!! stop blaming other queer people for queer misia. it is an attempt to gain control over your own sexuality by bringing down others, and is just as +

bad as homophobia, as most of the time we are told by exclusionists that we're not real not valid and that we should change our label, all while being shouted abuse at when it is very very uncalled for and we all know it. i cannot stop being bi lesbian, or change my label, as i +

have gone through a long journey of self discovery and found that i was not comfortable with any other label, there is a mix of the reasons above as to why I PERSONALLY go by it but ultimately, a persons label is up to them and no one should be able to say "UMM NO you're +

ACTUALLY _______" what if someone started telling you what to call yourself even though you didn't feel comfortable with it? how would you feel? if you were shunned from your own community because of what you call yourself?

anyway i'm gonna leave it at that i'm not sorry for the rant i was gonna make a carrd but this seemed easier and i'm tired of being shit on. have a nice day everyone.

OH YEAH ANOTHER THING I WANTED TO ADD
PREDATORY MEN we are not your JUSTIFICATION to hit on monosexual lesbians. we are not here for you to justify your grossness.