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I once snooped through a gents phone after he’s baby mama sent him a message saying “asefikile amaphilisi” (ARVS) 
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I’m not writing this thread to be judged or for y’all to feel pity for me just merely putting it out there on why it’s so important to always snoop around, even through he’s phone if you get an opportunity.
I remember it was Dec 2017 when I was getting to know this gent who was a pharmacist. Little did I know what I was getting myself into
Okay sharp. I was staying in Jhb and moGuy was staying in Newcastle. We started vibing from December 2017 until January 2018 (the relationship only lasted a month and a couple of weeks) https://abs.twimg.com/emoji/v2/... draggable="false" alt="🤣" title="Lachend auf dem Boden rollen" aria-label="Emoji: Lachend auf dem Boden rollen"> but that’s not important.
I went to visit this gent in Newcastle for a week he had asked me to come down khane sizobuyela egoli sow2 on a Thursday cause Friday him and he’s mates had a trip to Capetown.
My biggest mistake was sleeping with him without a condom but this usually happens when you’ve been fucking the same guy for a long time y’all end up not using protection https://abs.twimg.com/emoji/v2/... draggable="false" alt="💀" title="Schädel" aria-label="Emoji: Schädel"> In my mind I thought he was clean cause I mean he’s a pharmacist and he knows the danger of having raw sex
It was on a Wednesday when he was lazy to go to work. So we were posted up on the couch watching a movie and the movie ended up watching us. https://abs.twimg.com/emoji/v2/... draggable="false" alt="💀" title="Schädel" aria-label="Emoji: Schädel"> After action mo’guy decides to go shower and heads to work. He asks me to charge he’s phone while he goes and shower
While charging the phone kungene imessage saying “asefikile amaphilisi” (ARVS) https://abs.twimg.com/emoji/v2/... draggable="false" alt="😭" title="Laut schreiendes Gesicht" aria-label="Emoji: Laut schreiendes Gesicht"> I’ll take the bus on Tuesday. That message triggered everything but in my mind I’m probably thinking it’s probably pills for the pharmacy cause he owned a pharmacy https://abs.twimg.com/emoji/v2/... draggable="false" alt="🤕" title="Gesicht mit Kopfbandage" aria-label="Emoji: Gesicht mit Kopfbandage">
After seeing the message I quickly go confront him in the shower ask him when was the last time he tested ISIHLAMA sith recently, he’s clean I shouldn’t worry https://abs.twimg.com/emoji/v2/... draggable="false" alt="🙄" title="Gesicht mit rollenden Augen" aria-label="Emoji: Gesicht mit rollenden Augen">https://abs.twimg.com/emoji/v2/... draggable="false" alt="😢" title="Weinendes Gesicht" aria-label="Emoji: Weinendes Gesicht">lapho we had just finished doing unprotected sex https://abs.twimg.com/emoji/v2/... draggable="false" alt="😭" title="Laut schreiendes Gesicht" aria-label="Emoji: Laut schreiendes Gesicht"> okay move along
After a week being there and having unprotected sex with him It’s now Thursday we are packing getting ready to travel back to Jhb. I offered him to sleepover at my place when we get to Jhb cause it was gonna be closer to the airport for him. Yeyi Kumnand we are traveling to Jhb,
Drinking otw, playing music with he’s phone, I’m the Dj. Lalelani in the back of my mind I haven’t forgotten about the message that came through yesterday from the baby mama. I’m still thinking how I’m gonna access he’s phone and go the messages from the baby mama cause I needed
clarity. Lmao ISIHLAMA forgets and ends up telling me he’s password so I can stop asking him to unlock he’s phone everytime I needed to change a song https://abs.twimg.com/emoji/v2/... draggable="false" alt="💡" title="Elektrische Glühbirne" aria-label="Emoji: Elektrische Glühbirne">
Hhay sifike eGoli, siqale braam for predinks. Siphuze, sidakwe kube mnand and decide to call it a night phela kumele sishaye one for the road cause uyahamba kusasa for Capetown. So we decided to go to my place in Sandton https://abs.twimg.com/emoji/v2/... draggable="false" alt="😭" title="Laut schreiendes Gesicht" aria-label="Emoji: Laut schreiendes Gesicht">
Sith sifike, we settled in and decided to go to bed and have sex right away, unprotected sex again https://abs.twimg.com/emoji/v2/... draggable="false" alt="😭" title="Laut schreiendes Gesicht" aria-label="Emoji: Laut schreiendes Gesicht"> after sex ISIHLAMA automatically passes out. This was when I knew it was the perfect time to search he’s phone. I didn’t care who he was chatting too by that time, I just wanted
The conversations with the baby mama. Mangith ngyabheka it was shaky over there on WhatsApp, baby mama had been crying ,cursing him saying that she will never forgive him cause he gave her HIV https://abs.twimg.com/emoji/v2/... draggable="false" alt="😭" title="Laut schreiendes Gesicht" aria-label="Emoji: Laut schreiendes Gesicht">and she also went on saying when will you tell your ex kuth uyagula naye. Yeyi after
Reading all those chats my body cringed and I dropped the phone on the floor cause I was so shocked what I had been reading https://abs.twimg.com/emoji/v2/... draggable="false" alt="😭" title="Laut schreiendes Gesicht" aria-label="Emoji: Laut schreiendes Gesicht">https://abs.twimg.com/emoji/v2/... draggable="false" alt="😭" title="Laut schreiendes Gesicht" aria-label="Emoji: Laut schreiendes Gesicht">https://abs.twimg.com/emoji/v2/... draggable="false" alt="😭" title="Laut schreiendes Gesicht" aria-label="Emoji: Laut schreiendes Gesicht"> Ngivuke ngiye to the kitchen to drink water. it’s 00:00 Friday I’m going crazy walking around the house thinking to myself what I had gotten myself
Into. Ngibuyele to my room ISIHLAMA silele snoring sleeping peacefully as if there’s no drama going on in he’s life. Ila ngabona khona ukuth hhay nor abafana izinja shame.https://abs.twimg.com/emoji/v2/... draggable="false" alt="😭" title="Laut schreiendes Gesicht" aria-label="Emoji: Laut schreiendes Gesicht"> Ngisivuse ISIHLAMA and confront him about the messages.Iphike inja athi no I’ve got the wrong end of stick
Baby mama wakhe is crazy. We should sleep will talk about this in the morning. IMAGINE!!!https://abs.twimg.com/emoji/v2/... draggable="false" alt="💔" title="Gebrochenes Herz" aria-label="Emoji: Gebrochenes Herz">. From that night I was the never same. I called an uber and ubered myself to mediclinic to get medical attention cause my anxiety was peaking.
Got there and explained everything to the Doctor that I need to start with PrEP right away. Mind y’all you can start PrEP within 72hours and my 72hours yaphela on Wednesday when I saw the message and it’s now Friday the AM’s https://abs.twimg.com/emoji/v2/... draggable="false" alt="😭" title="Laut schreiendes Gesicht" aria-label="Emoji: Laut schreiendes Gesicht"> Doctor tells I’m late for PrEP but I said
I don’t care Its a risk I’m willing to take. They tested me first before giving me the meds. Got my meds and went back to my place around 5AM. Inja was still sleeping, peacefully didnt even bother to check on me when I stormed out of the house. Ngabuya ngam’xosha and never looked
back. That year was a dark year for me, I was miserable and depressed, almost took my life, I’m fine now. https://abs.twimg.com/emoji/v2/... draggable="false" alt="😊" title="Lächelndes Gesicht mit lächelnden Augen" aria-label="Emoji: Lächelndes Gesicht mit lächelnden Augen">https://abs.twimg.com/emoji/v2/... draggable="false" alt="💕" title="Zwei Herzen" aria-label="Emoji: Zwei Herzen"> I later tested after 3 months and my results came out negative thanks to PrEP. https://abs.twimg.com/emoji/v2/... draggable="false" alt="🙏🏿" title="Folded hands (dunkler Hautton)" aria-label="Emoji: Folded hands (dunkler Hautton)">
MORAL OF THE STORY: PLEASE DON’T TEST PEOPLE WITH YOUR EYES, CONDOMISE!!! Also, don’t forget to SNOOP around. It will save you from a lot of shit. https://abs.twimg.com/emoji/v2/... draggable="false" alt="🤞🏾" title="Crossed fingers (durchschnittlich dunkler Hautton)" aria-label="Emoji: Crossed fingers (durchschnittlich dunkler Hautton)">
