1. DO NOT tell your friends about your relationship problems FIRST. The first person who needs to know is your partner. If they didnt want to change then you can tell your friends and ask for some opinions. https://twitter.com/theonlymaleka/status/1154178922394918912

2. You need to know that it is perfectly normal to have "boring days", to feel like you are losing feelings, but note that the feelings are just temporary. There are so many ways to fall in love back. Read here : https://www.google.com/amp/s/www.psychologytoday.com/us/blog/compassion-matters/201804/how-fall-back-in-love-your-partner%3famp

3. When it comes to relationship problem, it should NOT be you VS your partner, it should be you and your partner VS the problems. If you cant figure out the problems, then actually you are just giving some excuses.

4. Using "not ready" as a reason to break up is a crap. Ready or not should be decided BEFORE you are in a relationship. If you already chose to be in a relationship, no matter what, you must have to be ready.

If you said that u want to leave tht person just bcs u arent ready, ask yourself :
- "who is the one who makes him/her fall in love with me?"
- "how does it feels to break someone's heart?"

5. If your partner realised and acknowleged their mistakes and they wanted to change, go for it. See his/her efforts to change. Give them a chance to show bcs it is not easy to find someone who is willing to change for you. Its not easy to find someone who can loves u sincerely.

6. True love is never easy. NEVER. Its okay to have a fight in a relationship, its okay to have a misunderstanding because that is what we called a relationship. We have two people, two different perspectives, two views, put yourself in their places.

7. If you tried to put yourself in their place but you still dont get it, know that it happened because you are too selfish. You think about yourself too much without considering other feelings. No one is perfect but a trying ppl is a gem.

8. Last but not least, dont give up on ppl who is not giving up on you. Yes, you can say that you will not regret it but you only said that bcs u never felt the real feelings of being regret. Know that, you lose NOTHING in giving ppl chances to be the best for you.

9. Oh and point number 5 is only valid if it doesnt involve cheating.

10. If you have something that you didnt like about your partner, tell them. You cant expect your partner to read your mind, to know whats in your heart and all. COMMUNICATE. Build an honest and open relationship.