I think a lot of enby lesbians just need to be told that being a woman who loves women is okay. Most of these people probably aren& #39;t enbys who are choosing to be lesbians but rather lesbians choosing to not be a women to get away from all the stigma and stereotypes

one thing I& #39;ve noticed is that a lot of younger lesbians like myself have gone through phases thinking they were ftm, genderfluid, etc as a way to justify them being attracted to women. and this leads into why you can& #39;t be a lesbian if you& #39;re nonbinary.

a major struggle of lesbians both old and new is being seen as a woman still despite being attracted to women. older lesbians were trying to be seen as woman by society while newer lesbians are more so struggling being seen as a woman by themselves

also before someone says it this includes transwomen since they are women https://abs.twimg.com/emoji/v2/... draggable="false" alt="❤" title="Rotes Herz" aria-label="Emoji: Rotes Herz">

also im not saying that this experience is universal its just pretty common in the community