So I’ve watched the whole video.
One thing yg aku paling tak boleh terima, bila the youtuber said to the woman (Erin) “Ni memang salah YOU la”
How can you put the blame on her je??
I’m not siding with anyone, sbb from my opinion both salah.
cont... https://twitter.com/peanutanisa/status/1284923268336504834
Why should the guy (Akmal) nk doubt on her sampai nk plan mcm ni?
In the video, he just said yg dia nk tengok her gf belakang dia mcm mana.
Okay, he might have his own reason (idk if dorang ada their own relationship problem ke apa)
But kalau ada problem, discuss la sama2.
Communication is the key to any healthy relationship.
Don’t involve orang yg tak tak tahu menahu langsung about your relationship and just tahu dasar je.
If dah mcm tak boleh sgt, baru la mintak guide or opinion org lain.
Not more than guide or opinion unless you’re asking from an expert like counsellor. Don’t involve others because only YOU that know and understand your partner.
For Erin part, yes dia ada jugak salah dia sbb terus pilih the Eddy guy to be her bf (sbb baru je kenal)

But kena faham, she’s been jobless for long. (Kalau dia ada nk sara family dia ke apa??)
And she was asked to give the answer ‘YES’ or ‘NO’ masa tu jugak...
Ofc la pressured. The Eddy guy tu takde pun nk bagi masa for her to think. Dengan time Covid-19 ni yg susah utk dapat kerja, mesti la bila dah dpt offer kerja mcm tu jadi buta mata sekejap. And I think Erin tu still muda sbb Akmal tu pun baru 23 years old
And then when Akmal said, “Kalau you mintak duit, I bagi je kan”.
From my opinion, Erin mesti la nk ada duit sendiri and career jugak. Tak nak berharap makan duit lelaki.
Okay back to my 1st tweet in this thread, when the youtubers highlight-kan yg in this situation memang salah Erin je (sbb dua2 youtubers tu ckp mcm tu and byk kali)
I strongly disagree with this 😠
Can you think that tak ke Erin tu nanti jadi paranoid or trauma?
The youtubers should not only put the blame on her. Choose your word wisely la, Erin masa tu not in a good state kot.
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