DATING ADVICE: A thread.
I& #39;m no psychologist, but I have experience. Don& #39;t make the same mistakes I did.
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I& #39;m no psychologist, but I have experience. Don& #39;t make the same mistakes I did.
Don& #39;t EVER convince yourself your romantic partner is your soulmate. You& #39;ll end up excusing things that shouldn& #39;t be excused, making excuses for them, and eventually it will all come crumbing down when one of you crosses a line they shouldn& #39;t have.
Stop looking for your "soulmate"! You might find someone you like, but don& #39;t let yourself really get to know them because 1 thing they said or did doesn& #39;t line up with your soulmate criteria. It& #39;s good to have a type, but that doesn& #39;t mean you can& #39;t go outside your comfort zone.
For example; My ex and my crush are shy girls. Very subconscious about their looks, small friend groups, more introverted. I know my type is what I& #39;m saying. However, they are still drastically different in likes and dislikes which don& #39;t perfectly line up with mine. That& #39;s ok!
Your romantic partner shouldn& #39;t be your only "friend". Choosing your significant other over your friends is fine in moderation. Just make sure you spend plenty of time with both your friends and significant other otherwise you might lose some friends. This goes for both genders!
Age might just be a number, but it& #39;s a number representing maturity. A 13yr old is still going through puberty and is very impressionable and emotional. It& #39;s not appropriate for them to be dating a 15yr old. People who are 30 to 40yrs old are of roughly the same maturity level.
Girls, if you know a guy is into you and you aren& #39;t into him don& #39;t lead him on or ignore the flirting. Be respectful and let him off easy. Tell him you& #39;re not interested so he can move on quickly and give him some compliments to build his confidence because he& #39;s going to need it!
There isn& #39;t and never will be a full proof way to get a girl. Everyone is different, sometimes it& #39;s trial and error, sometimes it& #39;s luck, maybe fate. I know it& #39;s done to death, but be yourself and be nice. Kindness goes a long way and your personality makes you you.
Compliments are the weapons of love. They can stick with someone, especially guys. You& #39;re gonna remember the time that girl said you had "gentle lips". The way to a persons heart is to make them feel good about themselves too. They might do the same for you.